Etiquette, Charm, and Beauty for the Woman of Today

Musings on etiquette, charm, and beauty from days of yore. A comparative analysis of the way things used to be, the way they are, and the way they should be.

Wednesday, February 08, 2006

Beauty: The Long and Short of Nails (and Hands)

Dear Reader,

To-day we will discuss the topic of fingernails and their proper grooming. I must get right down to business about the subject and not waste too much time with formalities--this is indeed a most important matter. This topic comes about as a result of my shopping earlier to-day. The check-out girl at my local apothecary had the most dreadful looking fingernails: uneven lengths, raw chapped hands, and ragged looking cuticles. This, my dear, is a definite "no-no" if you ever want to be respected within your community. The nails and hands tell alot about the lady. If your nails are not maintained properly, and so easily done so, what does this say to an onlooker about the rest of you? If you cannot take the time to care for your hands and nails, at least make an appointment with your local manicurist! For those who have the time to pamper themselves, I offer to you the following grooming tips:

1. Wash hands and fingernails regularly, especially during the cold winter months.
2. Trim your fingernails so the lengths are even with one another, that is, each nail shows the same amount of "white".
3. File your nails into a pleasing shape; slightly rounded is the most attractive these days.
4. Ensure that not one speck of dirt appears underneath the nail--use a nailbrush if you have to to ensure maximum cleanliness.
5. Push your cuticles back gently and trim off any excess with cuticle scissors.
6. Massage your nails and hands with a thick cream for hydration and adequate blood circulation--allow to soak in.
7. Apply nail color or clear lacquer to the nails, making sure to clean up any mistakes as you work.
8. Sit back, relax, and smile as your nails dry. You have just taken your next step toward loveliness!

Your goal is to have soft, milky white, hydrated hands with lovely and delicate fingernails. Always wear gloves to protect your hands from the elements and to keep your manicure looking fresh.

Take the time, dear reader, to become a perfectionist with these tasks. Take a look around at the hands of the girls you know. Notice the ones that are not maintained properly. Are those the hands of a lady that a man would like get to know better? Your hands say more about you then you know. Strive for hands that say, "I am a charming person. I take care of myself, my home, and can prepare a fine, elegant meal!" That will get you noticed!

Until next time...

HF

2 Comments:

Anonymous Anonymous said...

Ms. Hilde,

I love your blog! so much good info. i really feel like after reading this i could become a true lady. Do yu know how to get rid of yellow nails - do to always using darker polish?

6:32 PM  
Blogger Hildegarde Fillmore said...

Dear anonymous,

Oh dear--you must address this problem at once! I am so pleased that you came to me for your beauty advice.

Yellow-looking nails can be a result of a myriad of issues: poor health, nicotine stains from smoking, and the biggest offender--dark nail polish (even with base coat). Additionally, stained nails can also be the result of a lack of oxygen to the nail bed from constantly wearing nail polish! My suggestions to you are as follows:

Eat a healthy diet.

If you smoke, quit! Read my posting on smoking as this not only stains your nails, but detracts from your loveliness as well!

Discontinue use of nail polish completely for three weeks. You may use a nail buffer to remove the surface stains in the meantime, or of course, you may wear gloves. This time period will be the most difficult in your beauty enhancing program, especially if you are used to wearing polish regularly. But you simply must charge ahead if you want to look your best. Massage your hands and nails each night with a heavy cream (I recommend NIVEA creme) to promote increased circulation of the blood to this area.

Once your nails have whitened up again, and you would like to continue using polish, choose lighter shades and always wear a base coat. Darker polish is not as fashionable this season, so it will serve you welll to "lighten up" a bit. Also, about once every six weeks, go one week with no polish to give your nails a chance to re-oxygenate.

Dear Reader, I would love for you to repost with your results!

Until next time...

HF

11:21 PM  

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