Etiquette, Charm, and Beauty for the Woman of Today

Musings on etiquette, charm, and beauty from days of yore. A comparative analysis of the way things used to be, the way they are, and the way they should be.

Sunday, October 26, 2008

Beauty: The Long and Short of Nails (and Hands)

Dear Reader,

To-day we will discuss the topic of fingernails and their proper grooming. I must get right down to business about the subject and not waste too much time with formalities--this is indeed a most important matter. This topic comes about as a result of my shopping earlier to-day. The check-out girl at my local apothecary had the most dreadful looking fingernails: uneven lengths, raw chapped hands, and ragged looking cuticles. This, my dear, is a definite "no-no" if you ever want to be respected within your community. The nails and hands tell alot about the lady. If your nails are not maintained properly, and so easily done so, what does this say to an onlooker about the rest of you? If you cannot take the time to care for your hands and nails, at least make an appointment with your local manicurist! For those who have the time to pamper themselves, I offer to you the following grooming tips:

1. Wash hands and fingernails regularly, especially during the cold winter months.
2. Trim your fingernails so the lengths are even with one another, that is, each nail shows the same amount of "white".
3. File your nails into a pleasing shape; slightly rounded is the most attractive these days.
4. Ensure that not one speck of dirt appears underneath the nail--use a nailbrush if you have to to ensure maximum cleanliness.
5. Push your cuticles back gently and trim off any excess with cuticle scissors.
6. Massage your nails and hands with a thick cream for hydration and adequate blood circulation--allow to soak in.
7. Apply nail color or clear lacquer to the nails, making sure to clean up any mistakes as you work.
8. Sit back, relax, and smile as your nails dry. You have just taken your next step toward loveliness!

Your goal is to have soft, milky white, hydrated hands with lovely and delicate fingernails. Always wear gloves to protect your hands from the elements and to keep your manicure looking fresh.

Take the time, dear reader, to become a perfectionist with these tasks. Take a look around at the hands of the girls you know. Notice the ones that are not maintained properly. Are those the hands of a lady that a man would like get to know better? Your hands say more about you then you know. Strive for hands that say, "I am a charming person. I take care of myself, my home, and can prepare a fine, elegant meal!" That will get you noticed!

Until next time...

HF

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